Have you ever been in a situation when you have to decide who is your better friend? If you have, welcome to the club. In the teenage years, there is a lot of girl drama and friend drama. You may be friends with boys and you may be friends with girls. Maybe you are even friends with both! Some girls get upset if you hang out with other friends more than you hang out with them. I know it can be frustrating but, you don’t have to make a decision on who you want to be friends with the most. Your friends may tell you to choose who you want your friend to be. It can be very hard to not give into peer pressure but, you can fight it. You shouldn’t let your friends make your decisions for you. You are your own person and can make your own decisions. The good thing is that you don’t have to choose who you want to be friends with, you can be friends with all of them. What you can do is you can hang out with all of your friends at the same time or at different times. You do not have to give into peer pressure. 💗
Have you ever thought a boy was so cute and you all you cared about was his looks? I know I have! Most girls have only cared about a boy’s looks. The thing that is bad about only caring about their looks is that you don’t really know the boy’s personality. He could be mean or he could be nice. The scary thing is that you don’t know which personality he owns.
Have you ever had a boy make fun of you everyday for the smallest thing that they don’t like? It happens all of the time to a lot of girls. In fact, I am going through that right now. Most people say to save the tears for your pillow but I don’t believe that. Even though it can be really embarrassing, you don’t have to hold in the tears until you feel like you are going to explode. Also, when you save your tears for your pillow, there is no one who knows that you are upset unless you tell them. Now, if don’t save your tears and let the tears come out when you want them to, if you are in public your friends can ask you what’s wrong and they can help you. Also, I know it is hard but, the best thing that you can do is to not listen to the boy’s rude comments. Just it go in one ear and out of the other. Remember even though you feel like you are alone. You are not. There are many girls that are struggling with the same problems that you are.💗
Girlfriend to Girlfriend is a blog that will help pre-teens and teenage girls through life and how to feel more secure with yourself. This blog will help teens get through bullying, insecurity, and many other things that are hard in a teenage girls life. I hope that this blog will be very helpful to anyone who reads it and is a place where we can build each other up and help each other.
Have you ever felt like you are worthless? If you have, welcome to the club. Even though you may feel like you are the only one who doesn’t have friends or you think that you are worthless. You are wrong. Many teen girls are insecure of themselves and they don’t know what to do about it. In fact, some teen girls including me even bully themselves without even knowing it. We call ourselves ugly, fat, worthless, and we think that no one likes us. The truth is, is that we are lying to ourselves. People may tell us these lies, but we don’t have to listen to them. When we listen to them, we start telling ourselves the same lies that the means girls have put into our heads. If you think you are the only one who is feeling insecure or you think you are the only one who feels worthless, you are not alone. You will get through this. If you are feeling this way talk about it!! Talk to your Mom, your close friends or an adult you trust. Satan wants us to believe we are alone . Satan wants us to feel different and afraid. By talking about it you will find that lots of people feel or have felt the same way.
And most importantly, you can talk to God because he is always with you to listen, help and protect us.
8 “It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.”