Have you ever been stabbed in the back? I was recently stabbed in the back by two friends.
At the beginning of the school year I met this girl names Kendall. No one wanted to talk to her because she was VERY weird, but I gave her a chance. There is also this boy names Cross who I had liked since I was in sixth grade. As I became friends with Kendall, she became friends with Cross. Time and time again I would always see her hanging out with Cross and flirting with him. Of course I got jealous because Cross was never that nice/flirty with me. So about three weeks ago, I was in Washington, D.C. with my school and while we were out sightseeing, Cross asked Kendall out. Of course I was crushed. Ever since then, Kendall has not been exactly nice to me and neither has Cross. So I cut them out of my life because I didn’t want that negative attitude to influence me. I am happy that Kendall and Cross are now dating, but I was only upset because of one thing. The one thing I was upset about was that the night before he asked her out, she told me she didn’t like him in that way and that she would never date him because she knew that I liked him. Also, that same night Kendall told me this, Cross told me that he wasn’t ready for any relationship. That is the only reason why I was upset because they lied to me.
If you have been stabbed in the back here are some easy ways to help you get through it.
- Don’t let the person/people who stabbed you in the back get to you.
- Kill the person with kindness.
- If that doesn’t work, just cut them out of your life because you shouldn’t have that negative influence.
- If that doesn’t work and it escalates, get an adults help if you are younger.
“And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” -Romans 8:28
Remember, you are never alone no matter what is going on 💗